22 March 2007


Flow is a key-factor to keep things alive and make them grow.
The more flow we can create the merrier the growing process will be faster and faster.

I tell you a secret, a thing what I really love to do is fishing, more specifically: river-fishing.
Nowadays I hardly find/take the time practicing. Quite some years ago, all my free time I spent preparing my fishing equipment or I spent this time near the river. Of course I wanted to catch that pike, that large fish every fisherman dreams of but in particular I wanted to be close to the river. I needed to wake up close to the river hear the water flow and catch a fish. From the moment of the catch, all you feel is life, energy and adrenaline, it connects you through the fishing line and the rod with the fish and the river. It is hard to express the emotions we, fishermen, feel at that time, let us call it FLOW.
Flow of the rushing river, flow of our fishing line giving in and taking back, flow of the blood circulation in that caught fish, fighting for his destiny and flow in our body, excitement of landing this fish yes or no.
I can hardly picture an activity that generates and controls so much flow than simply catching a fish. Of course you can imagine your activities that booms from flow related to your life.
People in love will tell us that they feel this in their love play, athletes will convince us that they find this the moment they cross the finish line, business men will persuade us that nothings goes above a win-win agreement after a long time of tough negotiation.
Feel the pleasure of abundance of flow in your own life and use to get major progress in your life.
Love, work and live with passion,

What to do if you loose a fair amount of what you deserve, do you swell that pill?

Some weeks ago I talked with a friend and like all friends do, we talk about things that keep us busy. So we were talking a bit and suddenly I told him I expected this year to be quite different from the one I faced last year. Last year I lost about 80.000 euros due to midjudge of a financial partner.
The line kept silent for a while, and then he replied to me, he just admired the fact of having heard such a notice as such, his words: “you simply said this calmly with very few emotions as if this was the most normal thing with the least importance”.
After hooked in, I reflected a bit about this. My friend was right; I remained calm and expressed this as this had no more importance anymore.
Bitter pills stay bitter until the moment we accept that they are bitter. Same happens with everything in life. The key is acceptance, afterwards everything is possible again.
Do not loose your time pondering why, why me, …, go quickly to the step of acceptance. One you get there, your mind will help you to find the solution.
Love, work and live with passion,

19 March 2007


Forge the weapons in your free mind you need to be successful

Sometimes we run because we feel we have no other options. It seems so obvious, problems are overwhelming us and we work harder and harder. In fact, the harder we work the more problems we face and suddenly we are caught in this much known vicious circle. For sure this sounds familiar, of course not in our life but in the ones from people surrounding us.
These people’s minds are not occupied anymore; bit by bit they became preoccupied. They have the feeling of being controlled by the outside world.
To be honest, I need to confess, I felt like this some weeks before. Even worse, I felt like this at the beginning of a new year, loaded with a bouquet of good intentions to change and make things different. Definitely my mind state was not in line with the one I choose. Why does did happens and how to cope with this?

Forget the ‘why’ in the first place and focus on the ‘how’.

Just accept this is a part of a learning process, you simply need to study and practice more.
It requires so much more courage to set a ‘stop loss’, which means you decide until where to go and not to go further. Neither an occupied neither a preoccupied mind produces significant results, so we need our mind free to pause and think and then to choose one or two effective thoughts. This is so basic but nevertheless we are not congruent and let us trap into the same pitfall.

Our future, our destiny, our success, all of them is created in the same logical sequence. First we dream (imagine) it, then we live it in our mind and feel it in our body and finally we act and do create it lively.

Forge the weapons in your free mind, in a one that controls its own destiny.

Love, Work and live with passion,